School can be especially hard for kids with OCD because of their anxiety and need to perform rituals, sometimes in secret. In the classroom, some kids might act out in extreme ways, so teachers think they have ADHD or oppositional behavior — when it’s undiagnosed OCD.
What Does OCD Look Like in the Classroom?
How to recognize the signs a child is struggling, even if they are hiding their anxiety
Clinical Expert: Jerry Bubrick, PhD
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- Why is it hard for kids with OCD to function at school?
- What kinds of behaviors do kids with OCD show in the classroom?
Quick Read
For kids with OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder), school can be a struggle. Because these kids are often embarrassed by their symptoms and try to hide them, it’s hard for teachers to help them. Children with OCD sometimes act out in extreme ways, so teachers may think they have ADHD or oppositional behavior. But really, kids with OCD have a ton of anxiety and that makes school really hard.
When teachers know what to look for, they can recognize OCD in students and make sure kids have the support they need to learn. Here are some signs of OCD often show up in school:
- Going to the bathroom a lot
- Asking the same question over and over
- Checking doors, windows, lockers or desks over and over
- Getting stuck on tasks and having a hard time moving to the next activity
- Needing to do perfect work, like erasing a word over and over or going very slowly on a test
- Seeming distracted
- Tapping or touching things symmetrically or in a certain order
- Complaining of being tired or anxious
For children who have obsessive-compulsive disorder, functioning in school can be complicated and very difficult. And for a teacher, it can be easy to misread the symptoms of OCD as oppositional behavior on the child’s part, or as ADHD.
But if teachers can recognize the behaviors associated with OCD, especially when a child is embarrassed and trying to hide their anxiety, they can help kids receive treatment or make adjustments to help them learn successfully.
Here are the kinds of obsessive behaviors you might see in kids with OCD:
Frequent requests to go to the bathroom: This could be to wash hands, if someone near the child was coughing or sneezing, or if they touched something that they perceive as contaminated. They could be washing items — pens, pencils, backpacks, books. It could also be an excuse to get out the classroom and just be away from everyone, and have some respite.
Constant reassurance-seeking: This takes the form of repetitive questions. “Are you sure that’s the answer? Could you tell me again? Did you hear what I said?” Checking doors, windows, lockers, desks. Over and over and over again.
Getting stuck on tasks: Sometimes kids with OCD will need to finish something to completion, or understand it to completion, before they’re able to move on. So if a child is working out what they did wrong on a math test, and the teacher says, “Now let’s open the textbook and start a new chapter,” they’re not going to be able to shift gears.
Retracing: If a child leaves the classroom and worries that they left a pencil behind, they’ll go back into the classroom and go to their desk and check. If they had a bad thought as they went through the doorway, they might have to “fix it” by going back through the doorway again saying a good word. If they had a bad thought when they went down a flight of stairs on the way to class, they might need to go back up that same stairway at the end of the period, even if it means being late to their next class.
Obsessive erasing: A child could be erasing a lot because the letters have to look perfect. Or they could have used a word that disturbs them. For example, if they have a fear of vomiting and they’ve written the word vomit, they might not be able to stand seeing that word, so they erase it. Kids start having erasers worn down to the metal. Teachers start to see holes in the paper. Words will be drawn over on the back of the page. A lot of different areas of writing become problematic.
Distraction: If a child is busy thinking that if they don’t turn the pen cap and count to four the right way then their mom is going to get sick, they’re not going to be paying attention in class. And if their teacher calls on them to answer a question, their distraction might look like ADHD, but it isn’t.
Slowness on exams and papers and tasks: Sometimes when kids take a long time they’re struggling with the perfectionism of needing to do things the right way. This could look like learning problems, or inattention, but it isn’t.
Avoidance: Teachers might see a child who doesn’t want to sit on the floor, or pick things up that touched the floor, or get their hands dirty in art class. They may avoid a lot of playground activities — kids with germ fears will look at the playground the way some adults look at the subway — it’s gross. Why touch anything there?
Tapping and touching symmetrically: If a child sits down at their desk and they accidentally kick the chair of the kid next to them with their right foot, they’re going to have to then kick it with their left foot. That might look like somebody who’s being oppositional, or somebody who’s got too much energy, but actually it’s OCD.
Complaints of anxiety and fatigue: There’s one interesting theory that kids with OCD are smarter than other kids. And if you consider how much thinking they’re doing, they’re really using their brain more frequently than a lot of other kids are. But when that’s coupled with a lot of anxiety, you can have a lot of fatigue. So it’s common for kids with OCD to want to come home and take a nap after school.
Frequently Asked Questions
Some behaviors kids with OCD might show in the classroom include going to the bathroom a lot; asking the same question over and over; checking doors, windows, or desks over and over; having a hard time moving to the next activity; and tapping or touching things in a certain order.
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