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Recently, Meta (which owns Facebook and Instagram) introduced significant changes to its content moderation policies to allow users to suggest that identifying as LGBTQ+ is a mental illness. This decision poses a potential threat to the well-being of LGBTQ+ teens, who are already vulnerable to discrimination and harassment. And it starkly contrasts with decades of medical and scientific consensus — namely, that being part of the LGBTQ+ community is not a mental disorder.

At the Child Mind Institute, we are committed to supporting children’s mental health and well-being, including that of LGBTQ+ youth. We also recognize how profoundly social media can shape young people’s sense of identity and self-esteem. Here are some of the possible implications of Meta’s new policy as well as guidance for parents who want to ensure a safe and supportive environment for their teens.

Understanding the Change

Historical Context

In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed the term “homosexuality” from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), taking a pivotal step toward removing stigma and promoting acceptance. Modern clinical and academic research shows that sexual orientation and gender identity are not psychiatric disorders but rather fall in the realm of expected variations in human development and function.

Meta’s Policy

On January 7, 2025, Meta changed its community standards on hateful language to add an exception: “We do allow allegations of mental illness or abnormality when based on gender or sexual orientation.” Allowing claims that being LGBTQ+ is a mental health disorder flies in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary, and these claims may lend credibility to harmful, outdated concepts.

Potential Risks

These changes by Meta, even if unintentional, will likely shape online conversations in ways that are hostile to LGBTQ+ teens.

Increased Bullying

When platforms permit or fail to remove harmful claims, it can embolden users who might otherwise remain silent. LGBTQ+ teens are already at a higher risk of cyberbullying, and any perceived leniency in moderation may encourage bad behavior.

Heightened Mental Health Challenges

Exposure to negative or invalidating language can exacerbate anxiety, depression, ideas of self-harm, or other mental health issues — particularly for teens who are exploring or coming to terms with their identities.

Internalized Stigma

Even those not directly targeted by bullying can feel invalidated when they see harmful statements online. Over time, these messages affect self-esteem, further marginalizing teens who already face increased, often negative, societal pressures.

What Parents Can Do

Keep Communication Open

Talk with your teen about Meta’s policy change and social media more broadly. Ask how they feel about what they see are seeing online. Invite your teen to share their thoughts and experiences, especially with negativity and bias.

Affirm Acceptance

Reiterate that their identity is valid and respected, regardless of what they encounter on social media. Highlight positive role models from the LGBTQ+ community and celebrate stories of strength and acceptance.

Monitor and Guide Social Media Use

Keep a pulse on the platforms your child uses. It’s not always practical or advisable to cut out social media entirely. But you can suggest breaks, especially before bedtime, and help them find supportive online communities.

Encourage Critical Thinking

Help your teen develop media literacy skills. Discuss how to identify biased or inaccurate information online. Ask questions such as “Who created this post?” “What is their purpose?” and “Are there other sources that confirm this information?”

Report Harmful Content

Familiarize yourself with the reporting tools on the platforms your teen uses. Encourage them to report instances of harassment, hate speech, or misinformation.

Stay Informed and Proactive

Keep up with changing policies and evolving online platforms. Know your rights and consider reaching out to platforms like Meta if you have concerns. Support legislation and advocacy that promote safer, more inclusive digital spaces.

As an organization dedicated to children’s mental health, the Child Mind Institute remains committed to ensuring that every young person can flourish in an environment free from harmful misinformation and stigma. We will continue to work together with parents, health professionals, teachers, and policymakers to safeguard the mental and emotional well-being of our children and teens.