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What is Selective Mutism?
Children with selective mutism (SM) are often talkative at home, yet unable to speak in school, social situations, or other settings outside their comfort zone. While they may appear shy or unwilling to participate, SM is actually an anxiety disorder in which speaking feels overwhelming or impossible.
Without effective treatment, SM can interfere with a child’s academic participation, social development, self-confidence, and ability to ask for help or express their needs. The encouraging news is that SM is highly treatable with specialized, evidence-based behavioral intervention.
The foundation of our treatment model is parent-child interaction therapy for selective mutism (PCIT-SM), a specialized adaptation of the gold-standard parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT) model.
About the Service
Our approach combines individualized treatment planning, parent coaching, school collaboration, and real-world practice opportunities to help children build confidence and develop the skills they need to communicate across settings. Rather than using a one-size-fits-all approach, we tailor recommendations based on each child’s symptoms and treatment needs.
Families begin with a clinical screening designed to identify the most appropriate level of care. Our team gathers information from multiple sources, including caregivers, teachers, and other providers. Treatment begins where children feel most comfortable talking, often with a parent during enjoyable activities. Using carefully structured behavioral techniques, clinicians then gradually expand a child’s “talking circle” by introducing new people and situations one step at a time. As children gain confidence, we help them practice “brave talking” through exposure exercises.
Medication Management
When medication may be helpful, our team works with board-certified psychiatrist at the Child Mind Institute or with the child’s physician.
Intensive Treatment Services
For local families and families traveling from outside the New York area, individual intensives offer an accelerated path toward meaningful progress. These programs typically involve anywhere from 5 to 15 hours of individualized treatment across multiple days. Individual intensives provide concentrated opportunities for parent coaching and carefully paced, repeated “brave talking” practice across activities, people, and environments.
Before the intensive, parent training and preparatory sessions may be recommended. An intensive can build momentum, but generalization — not just learning skills but being able to use them across various settings — happens over time. Families may continue with parent coaching, individual treatment, school consultation, groups, or other follow-up services based on the child’s needs.
Brave Buddies® Program
Brave Buddies® is our intensive group behavioral therapy program for children ages 3 to 12 with selective mutism. Built on the principles of PCIT-SM and behavioral exposure therapy, Brave Buddies® provides children with structured opportunities to practice “brave talking” in environments designed to feel more like school, play, and everyday life than a traditional therapy office.
Programming combines individualized speaking goals with highly supported practice, peer interaction, classroom-like routines, fun activities, and real-world exposures. Caregiver training and follow-up help families carry skills into daily life after the program ends. Brave Buddies® is offered in multiday intensives, one-day programs, and weekly groups throughout the year. Eligibility is determined through a clinical screener and individualized review.
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More Anxiety Treatments & Services
Our Anxiety Disorders Center also offers the following specialized group treatment programs and services.
Emotion Detectives Group
In a supportive and fun group environment, kids learn to understand, manage, and face the thoughts, body sensations, and behaviors that contribute to strong emotions.
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders Service
The Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders Service specializes in diagnosing children with OCD and providing them with individualized treatment using cognitive behavior therapy.
Social Anxiety Groups
Virtual and In-Person Social Anxiety Groups at the Child Mind Institute teach children, adolescents, and young adults coping skills to help them manage their anxiety as they practice facing their social fears in a group setting.
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